Sleep 'etiquette' guide will ensure you and your partner have a restful night

Research of 2,000 adults who share a bed with their partner revealed more than a quarter of couples don’t go to bed at the same time.

And use of electronic devices when trying to nod off, sleep talking and lighting up the room late at night were other disruptions regularly encountered.

While 36 per cent reckon technology negatively impacts their sleep with blue light from devices and the TV being on said to be issues, 35 per cent believe it can have a positive impact – using relaxation apps, podcasts and white noise machines.

A third don’t think they get enough quality sleep each night, with respondents averaging six hours and 53 minutes of slumber. Of that figure, only 53 per cent of it is considered uninterrupted, deep sleep.

The research was commissioned by Premier Inn which has released a sleep etiquette guide with tips on how to ensure you and your partner get the perfect night’s sleep.

Sleep expert Hannah Shore from Silentnight, who has worked with the hotel chain on the guide, said: “The research has shown a real variance of routines are had across the UK. While a good number share a harmonious sleep schedule, others are finding their night’s sleep is interrupted by their partner.

“Technology can play a part in causing disruption, mainly with its use while someone else tries to nod off, so there’s definitely work to be done on ensuring everyone enjoys getting their rest without a negative impact.”

Common happenings at bedtime include other halves staying up to watch TV shows they like once their partner has gone to bed and scrolling of social media between the sheets.

Tips for a peaceful sleep

It also emerged 42 per cent have slept in a separate room to not be disturbed by their other half, with 19 per cent of those doing so often and four per cent every night.  

However, six in 10 are left feeling guilty if they do interrupt their partner in some way – and 29 per cent think they could do with aligning their routine more with their bed mate.

If heading to bed at a different time, 41 per cent try their best to sneak in as quietly as possible, though they are only successful in not waking their partner 55 per cent of the time. When it comes to technology, more than a third (35 per cent) of those polled via OnePoll believed it can play a positive part of the bedtime routine.

Relaxation apps, white noise machines and blue light filters were seen as the top ways, as well as 24 per cent enjoying the use of sleep tracking apps. That said, 43 per cent find their partner’s use of technology at bedtime annoying.

The sleep etiquette guide produced by Premier Inn has been created to allow readers to better incorporate technology into their routine, without annoying their partner – including what volume setting to listen to things like sleep podcasts.

Sleep expert Hannah Shore added: “We’ve created a sleep etiquette guide to help people make little tweaks to their routines that can bring great reward – and great rest.